What I’ve been up to…

I guess you figured out by my lack of posts last week that I actually DID get called to serve on a jury.  So much for wishful thinking that I’d be deemed unacceptable and cast aside.  It was a small consolation that, on Thursday afternoon, I saw a number of the folks who had been rejected on Monday standing in line at the security checkpoint – with juror badges on. It seemed they had been recalled and selected for other juries later in the week.  So, they didn’t escape, either.  There was some weird satisfaction in that.  I was almost done and they had just begun.

I think it was inevitable that I was selected for a jury. Not that I particularly wanted to serve on the jury, but that it was my time.  I’ve lived here almost 20 years, been a registered voter for longer than that, and NEVER have served on a jury.  I think it was about time my number came up.  Now, if I can only escape the responsibility for another 20 years… that would be awesome, but probably not very likely.image

Actually, my case was pretty interesting and involved “Imminent Domain” – where a public organization (the government or a utility) seizes land in order to provide some service or upgrades for the “greater good” of the community.  In our state, they are required to pay “just and adequate compensation.”  The dispute arose around what that “just and adequate compensation” was going to be. 

There was lots of testimony from appraisers and the like telling us what the value of the property was “before the taking” and “after the taking” (I just loved all the legal jargon – it was like learning to speak a foreign language in 30 seconds or less)  While that part was pretty mind-numbing, the actual deliberation was not. THAT was where it got interesting.

Our justice system is based on a person’s ability to find justice based on decisions of their “peers.”  That’s why the jury selection process is supposed to be random and without prejudice (notice I said “supposed to” – I’m still reconciling the fact that then they let the attorneys “strike” people from the jury pool that they think are not suitable to their case – seems like we then undo the randomness, but anyway…)

What was interesting was that I thought the case was very cut and dried. Easy decision. We’ll be done quickly and on our way home. 

NOT.

We were not allowed to discuss the case at all during the trial. Only once we got to deliberation. I was shocked to find (ha ha ha) that not everyone felt the same way I did.  Really? Uh, why not?

So, there we were, reading through all this evidence, arguing minutiae and discussing whether or not this person “deserved” the money we were going to award to him.

Sigh.

At one point, I was convinced that I would not, under any circumstances, change my position.  I had the right answer and the rest of those goofballs were wrong…

But, sitting in a tiny, freezing cold conference room for hours on end, discussing (and I use that word loosely – the bailiff said we were the noisiest jury she had had in a long time) the case, I began to think I’d be willing to agree to anything if they would JUST LET ME OUT OF HERE.

In the end, we came to a compromise.  I wasn’t thrilled with what we decided but I WAS thrilled with the fact that we were done.

Now? I’m just happy to get back to my life and my routines. (and regular blog postings)

Let’s just hope my number doesn’t come up again for a good long time.

I’m a great writer…

I’m a fantastic writer… simply awesome…

when I’m sleeping.image

Or, rather, when I am just falling asleep or just waking up.

I write some of my best blog posts then. 

I think it is because my brain is free of other distractions (read: kids, laundry, work, bills, dogs, cats, etc.) and free to be creative.

Unfortunately, I haven’t (yet) figured out how to get these simply fabulous blog posts out of my brain and into the computer without getting out of the bed.  It would be so nice if there was a wireless port I could attach my brain to and just hit “send” in my mind and the posts would magically appear on my laptop the next day. (sigh)

So, I hate to inform you, but you have missed out on some really awesome blog posts this week.

I have written them (many times) in my mind – just as I am drifting off to sleep or just waking up.

The really sad part is that I completely and totally forget what I was going to say by the time I make it downstairs and sit at my computer.

(sigh, again)

I think tonight I may take a notebook upstairs and at least jot some things down.

Hopefully SuperMan won’t mind too much. He’s usually zonked pretty quickly (this heat is killing him) and probably won’t even notice.

So, stay tuned. You just might witness some awesomeness later this week.

If I can stay awake. 😉

Not Me Monday

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This Monday, I did NOT:image

  • take my kids out to lunch again because I’m too lazy to fix them something at home to eat.
  • wish it would rain so I don’t have to take the kids to the pool again today (and swelter in the heat while they swim)
  • eat some crème brulee and bread pudding on Saturday night (no one saw me so it doesn’t count, right?)
  • keep walking AROUND the piles of laundry that need to be put away – without doing anything about it.

Join in the fun!  What did you NOT do today?

Friday’s Flowers

Here are some scrap pages with some recent flowers pictures, joining in with Renee over at FIMBY (Fun in My Back Yard).

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Hop on over to see more flowers on FIMBY.

Take THAT Starbucks!

I’ve told you before about my conversion to coffee drinking… and for the past few months, I haven’t had any coffee. (I'll tell you why tomorrow in my big secret reveal post)

Then, on our trip down to see the family for the Memorial Day weekend, I was dragging after packing and loading up to go.  I needed a pick-me-up, so I indulged in one of my most favorite coffee drinks in the world: Starbucks’ Caramel Frappucino.  You can now order it fat-free and sugar-free, so it fit into my dietary requirements.  Now, given, it was completely void of any nutritional value, I know that.  But it was the tastiest empty calories I’ve had in months!

Since we’ve come home, I have continued to crave that tasty caramel confection.  I am not going to indulge regularly in $5 coffee drinks which are just junk food for my body and brain, but I haven’t been able to get that drink out of my mind… I swear they put addictive substances into those coffee drinks… why else would you crave it days after having one?

Anyway, I happened to have some yummy Joffrey’s Coffee that is pretty good – Jamaican Me Crazy it’s called.

Jamaican Me Crazy

I made some this morning to try to assuage my coffee fix. It was soooo good.

Then, this afternoon, I was still craving some coffee. I decided, why not try making my own homemade Caramel Frap?

So, I took my leftover coffee (about a cup’s worth), splashed in a little International Delight Skinny Caramel Machiattoskinny caramel (which is sugar-free and fat-free), added a few ice cubes and whizzed it all up in my trusty little blenderooni I have for making my protein shakes (I briefly considered adding some protein powder, but figured I could do that another time)

 All I can say is YUMMMMMM

I am sipping it as I write this post. 

I will be indulging in a few more of these this summer.  And without the $5 each price tag of my other favorite drink!

If only…

If only I loved flip flops.

If only I loved flip flops, I would have an unending supply of cutesy summer shoes.

If only I loved flip flops, I would have easy on/off protection for my tootsies when walking on hot pavement.

I only I loved flip flops, I would be able to snarf up all these cute shoes I see in the stores.

imageBut I don’t.

I think I have had old woman feet since I was a child.

I don’t like that thingy that goes between your toes. It makes me nuts.

So, I can’t wear flip flops.

I am resigned to the fact that I must wear sandals that don’t cause my toes separation anxiety. 

It is a challenge, and once I find a pair that fit, I usually wear them until they fall apart.

The last pair lasted me almost 10 years – and I’d be wearing them this summer again if my geriatric cat hadn’t mistaken them for a litter box.

Ahem.

They are now filling up a landfill somewhere. Stinky.

So, I am on the hunt for new sandals this summer. Something that is cute, feminine and most importantly, comfortable.

Something like these:

imageOr these:

imageOr these:

image Not really.  

Who on earth would by these?

And, while I’m on the subject, what is up with all the gladiator sandals out there right now?

imageMakes my tootsies cringe when I see them. All I can think about is that it is bondage for your feet. And all those little straps; I can only imagine how they’d feel after a couple hours’ wear. 

  Ouch.

I guess they are marketing them to the teenage crowd who hasn’t learned the lesson many of us 40-somethings have: Comfort is more important than fashion.

Ah, well.

Off to find some sandals for my feet.

It’s been one of those days

Last week was spring break for the girls. I took a few days off and my mom came for a visit. We had a great time.  It was so relaxing and fun and just total down-time for all of us.  Wonderful.

Then, today, we are all back to the grindstone.  And, it has been one of those days.

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Know the kind I mean?

Where you feel like all of the planets in the universe are aligned against you?

Where everything you do seems to go upside down and backwards?

Where the harder you work, the worse things get?

Well, that is how today has been.

Sigh.

And it’s too late to go to bed and start all over again.

So, I will just soldier on and hope tomorrow is better.  It has to be.

Right?

(please!?!)

It’s been one of those days

Last week was spring break for the girls. I took a few days off and my mom came for a visit. We had a great time.  It was so relaxing and fun and just total down-time for all of us.  Wonderful.

Then, today, we are all back to the grindstone.  And, it has been one of those days. j0427604

Know the kind I mean?

Where you feel like all of the planets in the universe are aligned against you?

Where everything you do seems to go upside down and backwards?

Where the harder you work, the worse things get?

Well, that is how today has been.

Sigh.

And it’s too late to go to bed and start all over again.

So, I will just soldier on and hope tomorrow is better.  It has to be.

Right?

(please!?!)

confessions

Cathy Z had a great list of confessions on her blog today. I thought it was a pretty neat idea, especially when I read the other blog post she linked to, (where she got the idea) so I decided to do the same.  Why not, I thought?

Here goes nuthin’

1. I love to cook. Love to prepare food. I hate cleaning the kitchen afterwards.

2. I have always wanted to learn to drive a big rig truck.

3. I think Bill Engvall is one of the funniest people I’ve ever heard.

4. I think cheesecake is the food of the gods. It’s my favorite dessert.

5. I don’t like to eat veggies unless they are in a salad or soup/stew.

6. I think being a mother is the most challenging thing I have ever done. And the most rewarding.

7. I’m not a very good housekeeper. I like a clean house, I just don’t like to clean.

8. I think everyone should fly in a hot-air balloon at least once. What an awesome experience.

9. I love to watch my girls sleeping.

10. I have a love/hate relationship with The Bachelor/Bachelorette show. I hate how they portray people yet I can’t stop watching the train wrecks each season.

11. I love reading historical fiction novels.

12. I’d like to be a runner someday.

13. I’m scared to death of spiders. Even fake rubber ones.

14. I could eat Mexican/Tex-Mex every single day of my life and be quite content.

15. I don’t like fish.

16. I love cheese.

17. I love the quiet in the evening just after the kids go to bed – that’s when you can take a deep breath and let the day go.

18. My favorite kind of day is one where there is no to-do list, no schedule, and nothing that has to be done.

What about you?

 

confessions

Cathy Z had a great list of confessions on her blog today. I thought it was a pretty neat idea, especially when I read the other blog post she linked to, (where she got the idea) so I decided to do the same.  Why not, I thought?

Here goes nuthin’

1. I love to cook. Love to prepare food. I hate cleaning the kitchen afterwards.

2. I have always wanted to learn to drive a big rig truck.

3. I think Bill Engvall is one of the funniest people I’ve ever heard.

4. I think cheesecake is the food of the gods. It’s my favorite dessert.

5. I don’t like to eat veggies unless they are in a salad or soup/stew.

6. I think being a mother is the most challenging thing I have ever done. And the most rewarding.

7. I’m not a very good housekeeper. I like a clean house, I just don’t like to clean.

8. I think everyone should fly in a hot-air balloon at least once. What an awesome experience.

9. I love to watch my girls sleeping.

10. I have a love/hate relationship with The Bachelor/Bachelorette show. I hate how they portray people yet I can’t stop watching the train wrecks each season.

11. I love reading historical fiction novels.

12. I’d like to be a runner someday.

13. I’m scared to death of spiders. Even fake rubber ones.

14. I could eat Mexican/Tex-Mex every single day of my life and be quite content.

15. I don’t like fish.

16. I love cheese.

17. I love the quiet in the evening just after the kids go to bed – that’s when you can take a deep breath and let the day go.

18. My favorite kind of day is one where there is no to-do list, no schedule, and nothing that has to be done.

What about you?